How to Find the Right Therapist for YOU

Let’s be honest, the past few years have been exhausting. Between the ever-changing landscape of childcare and work dynamics to the feelings of isolation and desire to return to some degree of normalcy, you may have found yourself thinking: “I should probably talk to someone.”

Yes! It is so crucial to remember that mental health is just as important as physical health - and talking with a therapist is a great place to start. We may be biased because we are the owners of The Therapy Group so you could say we love therapy. Here’s the twist, both of us went into the field because we had such negative experiences going to therapy ourselves! Yes, we’re sure those therapists were a great fit for other people, but they weren’t for us. We know first hand that it can feel exhausting finding the right fit and also how important it is to find a therapist who you connect with. In fact, the relationship you have with your therapist is the most important predictor of therapeutic success. Check out these five tips to finding the therapeutic support you are looking for without wasting your time, money or vulnerability.

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How is Mental Health Comparable to Physical Health?

We tend to take physical health much more seriously than mental health. It’s more openly talked about, and physical healthcare (although also very flawed) tends to be more accessible. The truth is though, they are so connected. They are also much more similar than they are different. I’m hoping that by seeing their similarities, we can begin to start seeing them as two sides of the same coin.

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10 Ways to Increase Intimacy in Your Relationship

Intimacy and vulnerability are an essential part of a healthy relationship. Our day to day lives are ridden with stressors that easily create a barrier to maintaining and cultivating connection in our relationships. Check out The Therapy Group's 10 tips to increase intimacy in your relationship with your partner.

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Stop Saying “This is a Safe Space”

“This is a safe space” is a phrase heard far and wide across therapy offices, yoga studios, classrooms, workplaces, relationships – pretty much anywhere there are humans. It’s a trendy phrase. Often it is uttered to encourage people to open up in one way or another to a therapist, to an experience or to a class of their peers. People say this with the intention of signaling that they are capable of holding whatever the sharing person needs to express. While seemingly positive and reassuring, what fails to be considered in saying this is the actual experience of the person being asked to share. Only that person can determine if a space is safe. A space isn’t safe just because a someone else says so.

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12 Types of Emotional Abuse That Aren't Physical Violence


It is imperative to also note that in addition to physical injury and assault, domestic violence can also be emotional and psychological, but is often minimized as not being “that bad,” because it did not cause physical harm. In fact, emotional and psychological abuse is substantially more prevalent than physical abuse, yet is not as often identified and addressed. Explained further below are twelve types of emotional and psychological abuse that do not cause physical injury.

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